Guest Post - Be Yourself!

March 14, 2023

Today marks the day that I got my first ever piercing.

When I was younger, I felt some pressure to get my ears pierced. I saw those around me getting piercings and I heard others talk about how they've had theirs since they were very very little.

One time a few years ago, the topic of piercings came up. Someone close to me stated how I would look so much better and more beautiful with my ears pierced. I don't remember the conversation, how I responded, or what happened after that. I only remember how I felt.

Terrible. And somewhat guilty that I didn't have my ears pierced like the person who made the comment. Guilty that I couldn't live up to their beauty expectations.

I was so young, but already self conscious about my choices fashion wise. I was never interested in some of the things my friends were. Painting my nails, wearing jewelry, getting piercings.

I felt like I didn't always fit in. I always felt like I was being judged/going to be judged for expressing myself.

Recently, I've been thinking about all of this. I've done some processing and unpacking. Over the past few years, I've slowly started becoming my own person. I've seen an increase in my self confidence and willingness to try new things.

I started wearing bathing suits I never felt comfortable wearing before. I cut my hair. I started painting my nails every once in a while. I started wearing rings. I actually pierced my ears.

If you've ever been held back from trying something new because of the way you think others will view you, I say get out there and be yourself. Don't do it for anyone but yourself.